Just a thought

Ive recently heard some vamps believe that u shouldn't sexually feed from a partner who dosen't want you to. Then I thoght about the gardians who this is innate to. I figured that thier soulmates and true lovers would never say such a thing and ask them to deny their nature. Thats like going to a hollistic doctor and saying don't give me natural medicine, give me pascription( sorry if thats spelt wrong). The hollistic Doc. is going to be like ''Well why the hell did you come to me?'' I am not making light weight of an asetian sexuality with this example. I'm just saying I think this is a silly notion. Why should a vamp. deny their nature 'cause someone is afraid or dosen't understand it(usually a human). If someone wants you to deny your nature then they could never love all of you and accept all of what you are.

If you're properly feeding, then it will be a very pleasant experience for the receiving party. And if you are doing something against someone's will, then that's rape, and that's bad juju. Now, for Guardians, it would just come naturally, and I doubt they would even need to talk with their lover about it. It would just be understood and enjoyed. Since they are stubborn, I do imagine that a Guardian may just have their way regardless of whether you think you want it or not. :p

Some will feed off of another whether the individual being fed from wants to be fed off of or not. It happens! It depends on ones values, and the level of respect they have for the individual they are feeding from, curiosity, etc. etc. etc.. But then again, some are not even aware they are doing it.

Well, I can reverse your questions. Why should you be with someone who is going to snatch your energy without your permission? Why be with someone who does not respect when you say "No!"? Why be with someone who is displaying that they are better than you, and that they will take what they want from you when they want to? If someone will take your energy when you say "No!" then what else will they steal from you? Your car? Your money? Your credit cards? Are they going to force sex on you also when you say "no!"? They obviously are not respecting you, and why in the hell would you be with someone who does not respect you? Why, because they are a vampire? Oh please!!! If you truly care and love someone then you are going to respect when they say "No!". See, there are always two sides to an equation. There must be mutual respect.

I think you are mixing things up here to make your point. The problem is that you can't compare Asetians to those you are speaking about. In simple terms, it is like comparing blueberries to oranges.

You can never feed in that way if syncrony with the other one dosen't exist.

Daniel09 wrote:If you're properly feeding, then it will be a very pleasant experience for the receiving party. And if you are doing something against someone's will, then that's rape, and that's bad juju. Now, for Guardians, it would just come naturally, and I doubt they would even need to talk with their lover about it. It would just be understood and enjoyed. Since they are stubborn, I do imagine that a Guardian may just have their way regardless of whether you think you want it or not. :p

Thank you and the rest of you for all of your comments they are much apprieciated. And I do believe in situations of love and trust partners should honor ones trust this is the only way for it to be pleasurable for lovers. However, in the case of guardians this will be done naturally as you stated. I think my post went going more so in the direction of this innate trait of a guardian as was intended.

Proper feeding from indirect and elemental sources prevents the need for this. It is an act done or at least should be done only by true lovers.